~Death can be that instant~
..Now,who on Earth am I?A judge Or sort of a God's messenger?Why had I spoken all that to you out of a sudden?-like I knew earlier that it's gonna happen- If you think back in midst of the struggle,it were all His plan....Sometimes,if we were to realise..God makes us face what we think we fear the most....,and eventually, it only helps to discover the strength within us..
It's a miss that you left a bit too early...anyhow, May you R.I.P ~Kalashini (1990-2011).
Get well soon ~Ammu Ramachandran Losing loved ones is an inevitable part of life.Time heals almost everything.Give time some time ,sister. It's gonna be alright. Remember:People leave,never from our hearts.
Patience is a good virtue. Not many know how to apply it. Even me. I'm still learning how to apply patience effectively. I did some damages by being haste and end up making fast and irrational decisions in past. At the end of the day, I wonder if that was what I wanted, when in fact if I took the time to think, things would have been so much different, perhaps pleasant if not better.And now that im learning to be more patient than is my nature.There are times when I speak stuffs where I don't mean at all....and there are definitely times when I do seriously mean what I say.I just hope people around me would be able to differenciate between both of these.So,do not get hurt by me,especially if you see me not getting hurt in return...=)
Caution: This post is merely for awareness purpose.It should'nt be misinterpreted as my personal revenge towards anyone.Reminder to all blog readers...DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME!..lolx =D
Well, it's not fair to summarize the whole story of that MEN are always the culprits behind the failure of a relationship. There are good ones for sure out there, perhaps somewhere but obviously they are neither plenty nor abundant, but just a handful of them.When guys leave you for whatever reason,rise immediately and think that you are not the only one in this world that had failed in relationship.In fact,billions of others had.
Don't get me wrong if I speak as if I had been in love a hundred times....and yeah..I've got no experience in this matter...I know it is easier said than done..but,whatever also life carries on isn't it? You only live once,why waste so much sentiment on love alone????Sentiments are good in life,but when you show it overwhelmingly....it becomes a disaster.I have met a number of people who came complaining to me that they have so much of problems in life.When I interrogate them for details...(kononnya mau tolong)...Lolx..all they would come up is 'Love failure'.Is that so much of a problem??? ~haiz
Come on lar...You got to have feelings, but of course, do not over react for stuff and put your dignity down the drain for the guy. Guys are guys. Guy who understands and treats you as a women,he is a gem.What is the point you get a whole lot mental torture for this anyway?..what more when you get other's miserable and worried with your psychotic acts.What are you trying to prove over your failure to secure a relationship?What can you do?????????????????????????????Nothing...
When someone really changes,I think it's no use of going hysterical and pounce on him for clarification.
1001 excuses tell u the same thing,
feelings changed.
If this can happen to anyone,it can happen to you too.
Not every relationships have a ‘happy ending’.Make the happy one as good memories and the hurtful one as a lesson.And,MOVE ON.
Please do not commit suicide for your the sake of your loved ones at least.I been hearing a number of suicide cases lately...never thought of writing about it until witnessing myself in FB of one who has such an early sign of committing suicide...
I don't understand why people in relationship have to act really lame...this is a girl under my friend's list in facebook...and now,look at what she did....
You shoud have cut the wrist....nw,do it right girl...;p
My ridicule for you is free,bt there'll be a slight charge for my sympathy sister...=)
These are the pathetic comments under her photos...........
I was embarrassed myself to be a girl for one moment looking at those pictures.....
and it was embarrassing to even give a comment on her page.....I'm glad that this guy did at least...on my behalf.....
Anyway,I hope she don't get to see herself being a subject to be talked about by me in my blog....he,he...i don't intend to insult her anyway,I am a girl too....the reason I post this here is to remind if anyone of you happen to see suicidal comments, statuses or photos online, please try to knock some senses into their heads.
Relationship is a risk.. If you’re not willing to take the risk of failure, then do not even think about relationship. Listen up to your parents and get married whenever/whoever they want you to.
No...this is not an advice...maybe just a suggestion...because you know....You got to accept the fact that sometimes you are not made for each other like 'Surya & Jothika,'' ''Ajith & Shalini", "Romeo & Juliet",''Laila & Majnu" nor "Shahjahan & Mumtaj"....;p
Don't be so sure if the one who you are sleeping with now is the one who you are going to marry with...and girls,pls don't get pregnant before hand....I know you people are sometimes so desperate....but,bare in mind...'SABAR ITU SEPARUH DARIPADA IMAN ' =) It's not wrong to love....but, be professional in love...don't be too clingy and never be an option in someones life.And for girls,when your boy returns to you after all the other girls had forgotten him...do not fall again.Be wise...if he had cheated you for once,shame on him...but if he had cheated you twice,that's a SHAME ON YOU.
As Indian philosophy states:
"yemaraven irukkum varaikkum ematharraven irrupan" Translation: As long as there is someone to get cheated,there'll be always existence of people who cheat. Hu,hu..=p
It's best to love wisely,no doubt.=) Lolx wa,ka,ka....;p For Miss XXX mentioned above,I do not know her any much personally..but anyway,I hope she'll find back her sanity and change her idiotic mentality for sake of her parents at least.I think before loving others,first she should love herself. Now,the very next step I'm gonna take is to unfriend this girl.I don't wish to see any further uploads or updates from this kinda sad jerk. =) * We all feel overwhelmed by difficult emotions and situations sometimes.For every single time you are facing problem, always remember that there is always someone out there who is suffering even 100 times worst than you.Do not take life for granted.Suicide is not a solution.You have no idea how some people struggle just to live a life. =)
Friday, September 16, 2011
The British Council Portal is so scary even to look at....How the h*** am I going in there for IELTS???
I came across this video in you tube recently,that I would like to share over here....I know right now you'll be wondering if I have that much of time to roam around YouTube and look for stuffs like this...by right,I should be studying for my finals...He,he...There are many things clouding my mind at this moment,that I can't even express it to anyone ,neither over here being aware of the fact that people do read my blog...;p I don't even wish to mourn about whats happening around me,and I believe everything will come to perfect sense eventually.I need some distraction.I got to divert my mind into something totally out of my business.So,this is what I do.It's more like a...''STOP,BREATH,RELAX...'' reaction. Now do I clear your doubts?...=)...
Alright,put that a side.Let's come to the video.....Now,I've ridiculed many Indian rituals to myself in the past,not knowing the reason and purpose behind it.Very often we are asked to tolerate acts that don't make sense...but are not asked to express doubts and questions.Such example will be animal sacrificing in temples.Definitely,this is not the same with animal testing in laboratories.Two of other examples will be,rubbing the pigs' ***,believing it will bring them luck ( if you'd call H1N1 a luck,then i'll probably shut my mouth),and drinking goats' blood thinking it is Goddess Kali who is sucking on them (tell me if it supplies you with some kind of nutrient,then I may consider).I am sort of a religious person too and I do believe in God (it is just a leap of FAITH after all),but almost all the time I only do things which make sense to me..It's not wrong to be a little practical,isn't it?
This man,when I did a small research, is known to be 'Kali Kovil Raja' and he is no ordinary man.He had trained under Aghoris in India and is more like a local cult leader to the people here in Port Klang,Selangor.
So,what he does????? Look at this video...
To my own surprise,this man baths himself with boiling oil from the wok using neem leaves.I don't see his skin getting scalded...nor he himself giving painful reactions.....I don't know,I JUST DON'T KNOW how is this possible to be done. I agree that there are certain things that can't be explained by mere science...and there are things which remained mysterious to us humans up to this digital era.Or it may be just something about spiritualism that not all of us know about.
YET I wonder,
Call it trance,call it divine/spiritualism or call it a supernatural power....be it whatever... WHAT IS THE PURPOSE ANYWAY ???
Why are people doing this?I'm pretty sure God does' not want us suffer or punish one self...you may have done sins,but God has his own plans....or in other words,call it LAW OF KARMA~what goes around,comes around. I think he could have saved a few bottles of oils instead and give those to the poor ones...( they could have at least prepare themselves meals)....and from the video,I can see that the boiling oil literally did flew towards people surrounding him.''Enna kodumai sir ithu???''Lolx =p
Am I right?No?
Well whatever it is, it’s just plain interesting that the curiosity is washing all over me. Damn. =)
*Whatever written by me in my blog is just based on my own personal thoughts and experience.If it contradicts to any of yours....please do not get offended.You may as well comment on what you think....
With that,with lots of unclarified doubts,signing off.....Sandra Kumari Jaganadan. =)
