When people run out of sanity.............

Caution: This post is merely for awareness purpose.It should'nt be misinterpreted as my personal revenge towards anyone.Reminder to all blog readers...DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME!..lolx =D

Well, it's not fair to summarize the whole story of that MEN are always the culprits behind the failure of a relationship. There are good ones for sure out there, perhaps somewhere but obviously they are neither plenty nor abundant, but just a handful of them.When guys leave you for whatever reason,rise immediately and think that you are not the only one in this world that had failed in  relationship.In fact,billions of others had.

Don't get me wrong if I speak as if I had been in love a hundred times....and yeah..I've got no experience in this matter...I know it is easier said than done..but,whatever also life carries on isn't it? You only live once,why waste so much sentiment on love alone????Sentiments are good in life,but when you show it overwhelmingly....it becomes a disaster.I have met a number of people who came complaining to me that they have so much of problems in life.When I interrogate them for details...(kononnya mau tolong)...Lolx..all they would come up is 'Love failure'.Is that so much of a problem??? ~haiz

Come on lar...You got to have feelings, but of course, do not over react for stuff and put your dignity down the drain for the guy. Guys are guys. Guy who understands and treats you as a women,he is a gem.What is the point you get a whole lot mental torture for this anyway?..what more when you get other's miserable and worried with your psychotic acts.What are you trying to prove over your failure to secure a relationship?What can you do?????????????????????????????Nothing...

When someone really changes,I think  it's no use of going hysterical and pounce on him for clarification.

1001 excuses tell u the same thing,

feelings changed.

If this can happen to anyone,it can happen to you too.

Not every relationships have a ‘happy ending’.Make the happy one as good memories and the hurtful one as a lesson.And,MOVE ON.

Please do not commit suicide for your the sake of your loved ones at least.I been hearing a number of suicide cases lately...never thought of writing about it until witnessing myself in FB of one who has such an early sign of committing suicide...

I don't understand why people in relationship have to act really lame...this is a girl under my friend's list in facebook...and now,look at what she did....

You shoud have cut the wrist....nw,do it right girl...;p



My ridicule for you is free,bt there'll be a slight charge for my sympathy sister...=)

    These are the pathetic comments under her photos...........

I was embarrassed myself to be a girl for one moment looking at those pictures.....

and it was embarrassing to even give a comment on her page.....I'm glad that this guy did at least...on my behalf.....

Anyway,I hope she don't get to see herself being a subject to be talked about by me in my blog....he,he...i don't intend to insult her anyway,I am a girl too....the reason I post this here is to remind if anyone of you happen to see suicidal comments, statuses or photos online, please try to knock some senses into their heads.

Relationship is a risk.. If you’re not willing to take the risk of failure, then do not even think about relationship. Listen up to your parents and get married whenever/whoever they want you to.

No...this is not an advice...maybe just a suggestion...because you know....You got to accept the fact that sometimes you are not made for each other like 'Surya & Jothika,'' ''Ajith & Shalini", "Romeo & Juliet",''Laila & Majnu" nor "Shahjahan & Mumtaj"....;p

Don't be so sure if the one who you are  sleeping with now is the one who you are going to marry with...and girls,pls don't get pregnant before hand....I know you people are sometimes so desperate....but,bare in mind...'SABAR ITU SEPARUH DARIPADA IMAN ' =)


It's not wrong to love....but, be professional in love...don't be too clingy and never be an option in someones life.And for girls,when your boy returns to you after all the other girls had forgotten him...do not fall again.Be wise...if he had cheated you for once,shame on him...but if he had cheated you twice,that's a SHAME ON YOU.

As Indian philosophy states:

"yemaraven irukkum varaikkum ematharraven irrupan"
Translation: As long as there is someone to get cheated,there'll be always existence of people who cheat. Hu,hu..=p

It's best to love wisely,no doubt.=)







Lolx wa,ka,ka....;p

 For Miss XXX mentioned above,I do not know her any much personally..but anyway,I hope she'll find back her sanity and change her idiotic mentality for sake of her parents at least.I think before loving others,first she should love herself.


Now,the very next step I'm gonna take is to unfriend this girl.I don't wish to see any further uploads or updates from this kinda sad jerk. =)




* We all feel overwhelmed by difficult emotions and situations sometimes.For every single time you are facing problem, always remember that there is always someone out there who is suffering even 100 times worst than you.Do not take life for granted.Suicide is not a solution.You have no idea how some people struggle just to live a life. =)

The British Council Portal is so scary even to look at....How the h*** am I going in there for IELTS???    

Karma will slap you in the face before I DO.

Hindu rituals...

I came across this video in you tube recently,that I would like to share over here....I know right now you'll be wondering if I have that much of time to roam around YouTube and look for stuffs like this...by right,I should be studying for my finals...He,he...There are many things clouding my mind at this moment,that I can't even express it to anyone ,neither over here being aware of the fact that people do read my blog...;p I don't even wish to mourn about whats happening around me,and I believe everything will come to perfect sense eventually.I need some distraction.I got to divert my mind into something totally out of my business.So,this is what I do.It's more like a...''STOP,BREATH,RELAX...'' reaction. Now do I clear your doubts?...=)...

Alright,put that a side.Let's come to the video.....Now,I've ridiculed many Indian rituals to myself in the past,not knowing the reason and purpose behind it.Very often we are asked to tolerate acts that don't make sense...but are not asked to express doubts and questions.Such example will be animal sacrificing in temples.Definitely,this is not the same with animal testing in laboratories.Two of other examples will be,rubbing the pigs' ***,believing it will bring them luck ( if you'd call H1N1 a luck,then i'll probably shut my mouth),and drinking goats' blood thinking it is Goddess Kali who is sucking on them (tell me if it supplies you with some kind of nutrient,then I may consider).I am sort of a religious person too and I do believe in God (it is just a leap of FAITH after all),but almost all the time I only do things which make sense to me..It's not wrong to be a little practical,isn't it?
This man,when I did a small research, is known to be 'Kali Kovil Raja' and he is no ordinary man.He had trained under Aghoris in India and is more like a local cult leader to the people here in Port Klang,Selangor.
So,what he does????? Look at this video...

To my own surprise,this man baths himself with boiling oil from the wok using neem leaves.I don't see his skin getting scalded...nor he himself giving painful reactions.....I don't know,I JUST DON'T KNOW how is this possible to be done. I agree that there are certain things that can't be explained by mere science...and there are things which remained mysterious to us humans up to this digital era.Or it may be just something about spiritualism that not all of us know about.
YET I wonder,
Call it trance,call it divine/spiritualism or call it a supernatural power....be it whatever...
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE ANYWAY ???
 Why are people doing this?I'm pretty sure God does' not want us suffer or punish one self...you may have done sins,but God has his own plans....or in other words,call it LAW OF KARMA~what goes around,comes around. I think he could have saved a few bottles of oils instead and give those to the poor ones...( they could have at least prepare themselves  meals)....and from the video,I can see that the boiling oil literally did flew towards people surrounding him.''Enna kodumai sir ithu???'' Lolx  =p
Am I right?No?
Well whatever it is, it’s just plain interesting that the curiosity is washing all over me. Damn. =)

*Whatever written by me in my blog is just based on my own personal thoughts and experience.If it contradicts to any of yours....please do not get offended.You may as well comment on what you think....

With that,with lots of unclarified doubts,signing off.....Sandra Kumari Jaganadan.  =)

21st Birthday blast!!!

I just wanted to make a quick photo-heavy post on how my 21st birthday was celebrated.Truly,it was fabulous....I could'nt thank enough to my friends for celebrating my birthday,despite me trying so hard to break your plans..Lolx....

I am now LEGAL!

* The pictures uploaded here are a bit disorganised...hope you can make a rough order/sequence out of the event...=)

It was 12 am then.....

Simple,yet beautiful isn't it???
Disaster lies within though....Lolx ;p



These are few of my gifts....Thank a lot girls,it means so much to me...=)

Cadbury,by : Ammu
Hand made card,by: Aswini Freda

There was another special gift by Nalini,Ammu and Aswini.......
again, I got that due to
LAW OF KARMA! ;p
Unfortunately,I could'nt upload the picture over here
as it may cause hazard among viewers with high blood pressure or hypertension! ROFL

Well,to be frank......yet a bit discern..,

It was my own........ GIRLS' STUFF !

Teddy by: Syafiqah,Farhana,Cecelia and Nadia

Now you see...,this is what im gonna do with my teddy everytime im pissed off with something...ki,ki ;p

Diisyum!!!!!!!!!!!

Aarrgggg...!!!!!!!!

mummy.....!safe me!

Ouchh......!

Piakk,piyak....
dare you do that again teddy???????

OK...im sorry...I know im being cruel and
brutal...but,it just for the fun of it...
* No offence please...

WAIT....!!!!


Yet another surprise on Wednesday night.......
This was truly awesome.....!
This beautiful cake was cut on a bridge between two children swimming pool.....under the moon light..=)

Now,these are kiddos and the nasty things they do on my birthday!! ha,ha..;p

Top left: Me,Cecilia,Nadiah,Syafiqah
Below:Farhana,Ammu,Aswini,Nalini

Kiddos again....he,he

Will you marry me honey?

Named sleeping beauty.....,
so what else can you expect?
It a bolster.....!!!
Thanks to you girls...,this special gift is so inspiring and encouraging....
*Now,I can sleep better.... ;p

With that,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

I want to briefly thank everyone who has sent warm, sweet and beautiful “Happy Birthday” wishes over Facebook, e-mails, text messages and instant messages. I cannot thank you enough for being so kind and thoughtful. You truly have made my day so very special. I’m wishing you the best.

An overwhelming thank you to everyone! It’s appreciated! =)

I'm amazed..., how did that something you meant it to be so valuable became so worthless.....?..It was'nt just a gift,isn't it?

Meant specially for me...,but ended being dumped..just like..'hell no,you don't deserve it!'.

To you:Certain thing loses its meaning when it has to be explained....anyway,Thanks.Im still me.=)

If you think I've changed, THINK AGAIN.Because, my attitude is always based on how you treat me. =)

Bitter truth: Nobody truly understands anybody...so,why bother giving a damn? we might as well be happy...=)

Facebook teruk!

I was told that I'm keep appearing online,offline,online..then offline again for almost 20 times when I did'nt actually go online even for once...OMG...

Naan appadiye shock aiten!!!!  ;p

Testing,testing....

Somebody is obviously testing over me.Don’t I know you?But that’s ok…change is necessary ,as long as its good for you. I’m wise enough to accept the fact that when people change,it’ll be for two reasons:
1)  Either you learnt enough that you want to let go or…
2) You’ve been hurt enough that you have to let go.
Either way,……

~Live your life my friend~=)

The lazy song............

I just love this song clip....,go monkeys,go monkeys..go Bruno Mars!!! =D

Revenge....

I've been fooled by two of my roommates recently.....,

They gave me a gift box,nicely wrapped and said that it's just a token of appreciation...they created a whole new story by linking with a true story,which did actually made sense to me...so,what else.. I was overwhelmed with this piece of trick lar...ha,ha...one good thing is that I was'nt fooled all alone..,there was another friend of mine too. ;p

A touching intro....,like this.........

open,open.........

What on Earth is this?????????

Doh! this things belong to one of them...and the shoe polish is actually a used one.

Actually............,I guess all of this has got to do with
 LAW OF KARMA...

to recall what has happened two months ago............

May 11: It was my friend's birthday

This was a special gift for her by us, Sandra Kumari Jaganadan in collaboration with Ammu Ramachandran .....

In a shoe box wrapped with 'hari-hari' plastic bag and a piece of crumpled paper written
  'HAPPY BIRTHDAY!'
This is what you can see once she opens up the ugly bata shoe box...

Now tell me who would'nt melt with this beautiful phrases on their birthday.......he,he

But,we loved her even more than these words could speak.....

so we gifted her this...

these are her own belongings where we actually took from her cupboard without her permission...ki,ki ;p

and a note of appreciation...like this,

Top most word has been sensored for mannerism purpose...Lol ;p

since it's written in tamil,let me read for you...it says...'do this face deserve a gift???'  ROFL

Ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha,ha..

Moral of the story: What goes around ,comes around....fool others and there comes a day when people fool you back...

Revenge paid off!  =D

I dislike my ID because I look as if I got myself dipped in a pool of oil and come right there in front of the camera to pose...and you can see me smiling like a donald duck....Lol ;p

But you know what,I just love the statement under my photo......

wa,ka,ka,ka,..this is truly flattering!

Well,That's So Sandy...;p

Note to self: Go back to study table,no more monkey bussiness over here at this time.he.he...

To whom it may concern:
I called you a FRIEND,and that had been ONE reason for why I always think you deserve an explanation.However, I hope you would take that as a warning.=) Smile.

One of my room mate wanted to ask me a question a few weeks back, after reading my blog.........I was expecting some kinda big question where Im gonna end up struggling to give an answer....then ,there she went asking me...........

''Akka,ninge nalla vangalla ille kadte vangalla?''     LOL ;p
 ''Are you a good girl,or a bad girl?''

ha,ha...now,this girl must have been really influenced by tamil movie...
(I burst out laughing)  =D

More and more people are calling me emotionless....Lol ;p What do I answer them???